How it works
- 1
One of you starts
Enter first names. You get a private link that signs you in on any device. No email, no password.
- 2
Send your partner an invite
A one-time link, sent however you like. It works once, and only for them.
- 3
She answers
She goes through real rings one at a time and taps Love, Like or No, with a reason if she wants. Anything she loves can be adjusted in stone, metal, setting and band, with over 10 million possible combinations.
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He gets the brief
Her answers, ranked, with her reasons. Then price ranges, close matches and a spec sheet a jeweler can quote from. All of it stays on his side.
An example brief
Made-up answers, to show the shape. Real ones are ranked the same way, with her reasons.
#1
Steeple
Oval · four prongs · hidden halo · yellow gold band
She loves: the shape of the stone, the sparkle hidden underneath, it sits low
1.70 ct oval (9.5 × 6.8 mm) · 18k yellow gold
#2
Brook
Emerald · paired prongs · tapered baguette side stones · platinum band
She loves: the side stones, how simple it is
2.00 ct emerald (8.8 × 6.3 mm) · Platinum
#3
Honeysuckle
Oval · four prongs · halo · slim rose gold band · pavé shoulders
She loves: the color of the metal, the halo
1.30 ct oval (8.7 × 6.2 mm) · 18k rose gold
Who sees what
- Her answers and reasons
- Both of you. She’s told this when she joins.
- Prices, searches and plans
- Him only. None of it appears in her view.
- Her hand photo
- Optional, stored privately and served only to the two of you.
Private pages are only visible to those with the link. Read the privacy details.
Questions before you start
What is HerDreamRing?
Ring shopping for two people. She taps Love, Like or No on real designs and tweaks the ones she loves, from over 10 million possible rings. He gets her answers ranked, with her reasons, then prices, close matches and a spec sheet for a jeweler. The proposal stays a surprise.
Does this replace talking about getting engaged?
Nope. Whether, when and how you build a life together is a you-two conversation, and we stay out of it. HerDreamRing handles one narrow thing: turning “I’ll know it when I see it” into a short list of rings.
What if she knows what she likes but can’t describe it?
That’s most people. “Delicate, but not too plain, maybe a bit old-fashioned” is a mood, and a jeweler needs a spec. So she points at real rings, and her taste comes out as stone shape, setting, metal, band and height. Nobody has to know what a cathedral shoulder is to say they love one.
How can I find out what engagement ring she wants without asking?
Give her a private way to answer. Rings appear one at a time, she taps Love, Like or No and says why if she wants to, and the ranked results land on your side. She knows you can see them. Which ring you buy, what it costs and when you ask are up to you.
Does she know he can see her answers?
Yes, and she’s told when she joins. Her answers are visible to both of you. Prices, searches, sourcing and the jeweler’s spec sheet stay on his side only.
How does it help with the cost?
Price ranges are worked out from the exact design, for a good independent maker and for a mall chain, with lab-grown and natural stones side by side. You see the numbers, and where the money goes furthest, before a jeweler quotes anything.
Do we need accounts or passwords?
No. First names and a private link, about a minute. Whoever starts gets a one-time invite to send their partner, and each private link signs that person in on any device.
Is our data private?
Yes. Only the two of you can see what happens here. The hand photo is stored privately and finger detection runs on her device. Jeweler spec links show the ring only, with no names or notes, and can be switched off.
Does HerDreamRing sell rings?
HerDreamRing doesn’t sell rings, on purpose. The only job here is finding the ring she loves, not the priciest one in the case. You get a ranked brief, sourced price ranges, close matches, a short list of jewelers to start with and a spec sheet a bench jeweler can quote from. Buy it anywhere you like.
Can she see how a ring looks on her own hand?
Yes. Add a hand photo and favorites appear on a 3D hand sized to the finger, in poses like holding a glass or resting on a shoulder.
Which of you is starting?
A minute to set up. No passwords, no email. One of you starts, then sends the other a private invite.
I’m planning to propose
Set up in about a minute and send your partner an invite. Her picks come back ranked and in a jeweler’s terms. Prices, searches and plans stay on your side.
Start as him →I’ll be wearing the ring
Set up in about a minute and send your partner an invite. Then point at the rings you love, add notes, rule things out and try favorites on a 3D version of your own hand.
Start as her →